Relax and Enjoy a Conversation
I absolutely love the opportunity to get in a room with a performer and dive inside their business with them. I always want them to take something away from a meeting; a new idea, a different way to look at their business, a new revenue stream to look at, a new contact, etc. But, I also try to always take something away myself. Usually this involves trying to get a slightly better understanding of a specific industry (theatre, comedy, variety, etc). Every meeting is an opportunity to learn….for both people.
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I recently sat down with a very unique individual who has exceptional talent on a few different levels. He has a long impressive history as a performer in the dance world and has built 3 or 4 original stage shows from scratch and taken them to a level of real touring. This type of genuine ambition inspires me. He hasn’t yet had a commercial success, but he is a performer living off his craft and he’s living a life full of great stories.
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What can I learn from him? Sitting across the table from him I learned that some people never go away. I mean this in a good way. Performers like him will be in the industry forever. These are usually the people who end up figuring out the right formula at some point, which leads them to great success, and when this happens for him I hope he still wants to have lunch with me. These are the people that you keep in touch with and you help out where you can. You refer these people to other contacts, you go see their latest project and give them your honest thoughts. These are also usually the people who have gained the full respect of other performers in their industry. They are well connected.
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I took away from that meeting that sometimes meetings are just about the conversation. I have no idea where that relationship will lead (and neither does he I’m sure), but I’m interested to stay in touch and find out.
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If you take a minute during those opportunities you have with industry folks and just try to use the time to chat, ask questions and tell stories. Don’t worry about what this person can do for you or what deal you’d like to close today. Enjoy a conversation and see where it goes.
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- Justin Sudds – Gigsmacked.com





